Love is in the air...

Valentine's day....a month still to go..... and am already mushy
have changed the colour pattern of this blog as well..love makes you do these stupid things ..
and i'm loving it and i love loving it
and i love going insane,love being silly, love being stupid and love being in love
am loving it...
loving every moment i live, i love life..
it's a beautiful life, it's a beautiful mind..or is it simply a beautiful Him...
I love Him ... and His love is all around me
and Yes, I AM counting my blessings :)

Thank You

Thanks for making me believe in love and life all over again
thanks for being there
thanks for making me Hope, and wait, and for making me love this wait
thanks for letting me chase my dreams
thanks for pampering me
thanks for scolding me
thanks for teaching me, guiding me
thanks for informing me,cautioning me, imparting me with the wisdom
thanks for u being u and thank you for letting 'me' be 'me'
thanks for loving me......

and thanks for spoiling me

Life's little lessons

this is some fwd i got and i thgt it was kinda cool...
i also used it as a reality chk to figure out how good or bad i am
so,just read the statements on left in RED, the other comments in blue is trash which can be ignored (at your own risk though...)

Have a firm handshake.- I Do
Look people in the eye. I do
Sing in the shower.I do it all the time
Own a great stereo system.i plan to, have my brother's for the timebeing
If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.Naaah,grown out of it long back
Keep secrets.ummmmmmm....hmmm...I shall try to
Never give up on anybody.I Don't
Miracles happen everyday.I Know
Always accept an outstretched hand.I will
Be brave.I try to be
Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference. hee hee
Whistle. Yes I Do
Avoid sarcastic remarks.i usually don't,I Rarely DO :(...
Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 percent of all your happiness or misery.Am Still choosing
Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.haven't done it in a long time
Lend only those books you never care to see again.I shall
Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.Ok,will remember
When playing games with children, let them win.I usually do
Give people a second chance, but not a third.OK
Be romantic.I AM :D (do have a lot of people who can vouch for this)
Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.am almost there
Loosen up. ya ya
Relax.always relaxed
Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for your convenience, not the caller's.Ok, point taken
Be a good loser.OK :(
Be a good winner.cool, till the time I Win :)
Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.alright
When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go. :) then some boys think i'm a chep while women wonder on my lesbian tendencies
Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.Modesty is thou middlename ,not mine..joking..i am
Keep it simple.Uff, hows that possible...it'll all be so dry and boring :(
Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.hmmm...
Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets - No Regrets (listen to Robbie Williams,better still..watch the video...)
Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did.hmmm., this one needs to be worked on
Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.I never do
Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.I Always do
Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.I Shall try to
Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital, you need to only stay a few minutes.OK
Once in a while, take the scenic route.No scenic route ,i drive for 5 mins from home till office ,if i change the rout , it'll probably be worse and wd take me 50 minutes instead of 5
Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.' Me ?? psycho??
Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice. HELLOOO..I Do
Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.I kinda do
Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.cool
Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.I never do pay any toll
Become someone's hero....well, can try becoming a heroine though ..lol
Marry only for love.thats the reason am still unmarried..no love,no marriage
Count your blessings.I SURELY DO....Thats the reason i love Him so much...
Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.I can't lie
Wave at the children on a school bus.Ya, the insane me does it at times
Don't expect life to be fair - the stupid me still does expect

vishy's blog

Hi,
Vishy wrote this on his blog and it actually made me sit up and take notice...this is what i just mentioned to another blogger frnd the other day who had come down to our DILLI :D
it's amazing how most of us most of the time think alike ...or am i just being lazy and posting it on my blog jlt...whatever, this is what i feel as of now...so pls do read.......

and Sorry Vishy,Forgive this lazy bum

I was used to journalling earlier when I'd just scribble whatever crossed my mind and later on read it in leisure, but that was an anonymous pasttime. I did the same in my earlier posts, just scribbling what I felt like, but soon therewere a few people reading my banter and throwing in a comment or two. When the network sort of grew(or you can say, with the discovery of more blog friends), I guess, I became more cautious in what I scribbled here. Gone were the occasional cuss words or ranting about my depressed moods. I would think what others might think about my writing, or worse, about me, and would delete things or add something here, polish a passage there-- a kind of filter came in(and it's still there). When friends and others I really care about began visiting my blog and later would tell me a word or two about it, this filter grew real thick and strong.

I hate this filter. I feel, it inhibits my writing process. I had great dreams about becoming an accomplished writer, but I'm not kidding myself anymore. There are other priorities which stand way above my writing ambitions. For me, writing is now more of an outlet to my thoughts and emotions than a kind of sharing platform. Maybe that's the reason blogging of late is a laborious and strained activity, not joyful and spontaneos as it was in the beginning.Writing on this blog may gradually taper down and stop unless there's a compelling reason and motivation that gives meback...

some forward

This is for all Weirdo's and stupid silly frnds of mine who in this age are looking for Love......and for a whole lot of my frnds who are abt to get married or want to....

Whats love and marriage?
A Student asks a sage, "What is love?" The sage replied, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through it only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the field, going thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wondered.... may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he started to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he knew he had missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the sage with an empty hand. The sage told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already missed the person...."* "What is marriage?" the student asked. The sage said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is same you can go through it only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he picked one medium corn that he felt would satisfy, and came back to the sage. The sage told him, "this time you brought back a corn.... you looked for one that is just nice, and you had faith and believed this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."

just liked it, kinda random

http://behindkloseddoors.blogspot.com/2006/10/for-you-my-friend.html

No, am not drunk ...not yet

went drinking ystrday with a 23 yr old Kid....oops, sorry he gets really offended everytime i address him as a KID :(

have been going out with him...i know i know...you all can shut up and keep your cradle snatcher comments to your self...

And yes i got happy,high and then ...well.....i still didnt get drunk ( or so i ended up telling /messaging my dozen other friends @ 1 in the morning :) ......)

Thanks Friends for still being there ...love u all !!!!!!

Happy 2007

Hope its a good year for all of us.....
somthng my friend Rasna sent me :
If it didn't bring you joy
Just leave it behind
Let's ring in the New Year
With good things in mind

Let every bad memory
That brought heartache and pain
And let's turn a new leaf
With the smell of new rain

Let's forget past mistakes
Making amends for this year
Sending you these greetings
to bring you hope and cheer

Happy New Year !!!